“Rather, we have tried to show the logic and structure that unconsciously lies behind the reality the speaker takes for granted.” The logic that the speaker takes for granted is not primarily based on his anger and consequent need for retribution. Rather, it comes from the historical and perpetual objectification of women, which has had the side effect of giving men a sense of entitlement to be the master of that object. Let me explain.
I’ll start with the speaker’s assumption based on the “folk theory” that “SEXUAL ACTION AGAINST SOMEONE’S WILL IS UNACCEPTABLE.” I’m not exactly sure what constitutes a folk-theory based on the wide variety of examples provided in this text, but this is a law, not so much a folk-theory. It is the law that makes it unacceptable, but Lakoff links this to morality, skewing the fundamentals of morality. What is immoral is to do harm unto another person, yet this folk-theory never comes up. He thinks it’s wrong to express his human sexual emotions to this woman who does not want him, not because he thinks it’s wrong to harm her, but because it’s socially unacceptable. He is not looking at this from a level of humanity – respect between human beings – he is looking at it as something that would make him look bad. Boohoo.
Also, notice here that he calls lust a “human emotion” when Lakoff is making the argument that we express lust as a form of animality. We also say that we need to “pee like a racehorse”, yet even though we also feel this animal need to urinate and defecate, most humans over the age of 5 are able control their bodily urges to conform to social customs. I’ve never heard of someone feeling like they need retribution because someone made them hold it.
Lakoff explains his desire for retribution because he was made “LESS THAN HUMAN” and another “folk theory” (although I think this one is just a tad bit more legit) explains that “TO BE MADE LESS THAN HUMAN IS TO BE INJURED.” Since the speaker does not treat the woman as an equal human being, with all the emotions that he also possesses, he is degrading her and not even realizing it, just as she doesn’t understand why this creep thinks she put on a v-neck just for him to see. He feels like this flaunting of feminine vibes is aimed at him, which means that he presupposes a right to it. The denial of this entitlement is what causes him to be angry. He is deprived of “power”, not humanity; therefore rape is about POWER, not lust.
Furthermore, this rationale does not account for the fact that 15% of rape victims are under the age of 12, and that 91% of rape victims are women, and 99% of offenders are men. If dehumanization and the subsequent need for retribution is the cause for rape, it would be expected that male victims would represent a more significant percentage of the total victims and that the gender of the offenders would be on equal grounds (because women are human…right?). I’m not sure how Lackoff would justify this – either that women do not lust and therefore do not feel the need to rape, or that women don’t get angry and therefore don’t seek out retribution. Either of these responses would imply that women don’t experience emotions like men do, which would completely invalidate his argument that these are “human emotions” since then they would be “male emotions.”
There’s oh so much more to say, but seriously, I’m disappointed with Jackoff. He had a solid paper until the last 6 pages discredited him. After constructing a prototypical model of anger, he uses it to justify rape. For his assumptions, he picks out “folk theories” that fit whatever he wants to say. He uses as evidence the arguments that convenience him and disregards the others – he refutes the claim of “many experts”, “that rape has nothing to do with sex or even lust, but is simply violence against women with no sexual impact, “ yet uses as supporting evidence a claim of some number of women on juries that some rape victims were “asking for it” (like their clothes are speaking for them). I think a different social issue would have been much more appropriate for the credibility of his argument.